tasha-lemon:

eclecticstudentwriter:

succubus-is-smol:

black-hippie-moonchild:

17mul:

phoenixwolf876:

lovelynemesis:

This has happened to me before when I was in college at a frat party. This girl comes squeezing herself in between me and my friend and throws her arms around me. “Amanda, I am so glad you decided to come!” I was so confused and just figured she was drunk and mistaked me for someone else, until I saw the panic on her face. She leaned close and whispered that a guy was following her, was certain that he had put something in her drink and if I would please play along. I looked behind her and sure enough, some creep was watching her like a hawk. We invited her to hang out with us the rest of the night and even waited until her ride showed up just to make sure she was safe. Always look out for each other!

If you ever feel scared like this just come up to me like we have been friends since kindergarten, call me any name u can come up with ill play along.

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Stay together, stay safe

Perfect advice.
I’m reblogging this as a guy, because first of all, if you”re a guy : DON’T DO THAT. Don’t be that creep.

And if you’re a guy and you notice some creep is following or stalking a girl, and that she’s obviously uncomfortable or panicked, go ahead and say hi, long time no see, pretend to be her cousin, and tell her discretly you noticed there was a shady guy. Ask her if something’s wrong, if she feels unsafe, if she wants your help (very important – she may not trust you enough, no one could blame her, don’t take it personally). (and don’t you dare take advantage of the help you offered for a flirt opportunity, that would make you no better than the creep)

We can all stop “witnessing and do nothing”, and set an example.

Two years ago I was waiting for my tea in a coffeeshop when I saw a man who talk with a young girl in that shop. All her body was a flamming “I AM NOT CONFORTABLE, I FEEL NOT SAFE” flag and I couldn’t believe that creepy dude didn’t see it then i realize he didn’t care. He was talking too close to a teenagers so scared that she couldn’t look at him and he didn’t care. No one will ever told him something just because he talk with someone, right ?

I ran straight on them and shout to her “Hey ! I thought we were supposed to meet outside the shop ? I’m sorry i’m late !” and then look at him saying “excuse me, it’s been a while since i saw my cousin, excuse us” and offer my hand to the girl. I will never forget the look on her face when she took my hand and realize I was giving her an opportunity to get out of this situation.

I offerd her a drink and when we drank our tea, she asked me how did I knew something was wrong. I felt heartbroken to tell her but she deserved the truth so I looked her in the eyes : “It happened to me and not even once. The first time I was saved by three girls who offered me to walk with me until my house, I was 14. The second I had to tell a vigil someone was following me. The third I was alone doing my running and I swear I never run fastier in my life. It happened to my mother, to my best friend. It will hapend to you again. The newt time, do what you can : find someone, two girls hanging out, a guy with his girlfriend or boyfriend, a family and greet them as you knew them. Explain quickly, whispers why you are doing this and make sur you are with someone who can help you until you feel safe again”.

She was knocking her head and I was so sorry to see a teenagers learning that…